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Join parenting coach and mom-in-the-trenches, Penny Williams, as she helps parents, caregivers, and educators harness the realization that we are all beautifully complex and marvelously imperfect. Each week she delivers insights and actionable strategies on parenting and educating neurodivergent kids — those with ADHD, autism, anxiety, learning disabilities... Her approach to decoding behavior while honoring neurodiversity, and parenting the individual child you have will provide you with the tools to help you understand and transform behavior, reduce your own stress, increase parenting confidence, and create the joyful family life you crave. Penny has helped thousands of families worldwide to help their kids feel good so they can do good.
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![258: What to Do When Your Kid Isn’t Listening, with Penny Williams](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/2568742/Beautifully-Complex-Podcast-Cover-Art-NEW2024-1400SQ_300x300.jpg)
Wednesday Mar 27, 2024
258: What to Do When Your Kid Isn’t Listening, with Penny Williams
Wednesday Mar 27, 2024
Wednesday Mar 27, 2024
Let's talk about what to do when your kid isn't listening. Remember, they might be processing your words in non-traditional ways, so it's important to find alternative approaches to help them focus, process, and follow through. From recognizing distractions to accommodating slow processing speeds, I offer practical advice to help parents navigate these complex situations, including how to engage them physically, provide written instructions, and be mindful of their individual needs. By understanding these hurdles and meeting your kid where they are, you can foster better communication and cooperation. Join me!
![257: The Control Trap, with Penny Williams](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/2568742/Beautifully-Complex-Podcast-Cover-Art-NEW2024-1400SQ_300x300.jpg)
Wednesday Mar 20, 2024
257: The Control Trap, with Penny Williams
Wednesday Mar 20, 2024
Wednesday Mar 20, 2024
In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I explore the detrimental effects of trying to control kids, emphasizing the importance of a humanistic approach to behavior. After watching the recent documentary series on Netflix called "The Program," I was both horrified by the trauma that the “troubled teen industry” causes and inspired to talk about the much more helpful perspective science offers regarding behavior.
I’ve identified 8 key elements that help us feel good so we can do good, and none of them have anything to do with control. Through personal experiences and impassioned insights, I shed light on the need to empower kids, especially those who are neurodivergent, and the damaging impact of not respecting their individuality and autonomy.
Join me in understanding the importance of taking a humanistic approach to behavior and nurturing an environment that supports and values the uniqueness of every child.
![256: Breaking Down Motivation: Helping Teens and Young Adults Find Their Path to Success, with Melanie McNally, Psy.D.](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/2568742/Beautifully-Complex-Podcast-Cover-Art-NEW2024-1400SQ_300x300.jpg)
Wednesday Mar 13, 2024
Wednesday Mar 13, 2024
In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I sit down with Dr. Melanie McNally, a clinical psychologist and brain coach who specializes in working with tweens, teens, and young adults. Together, we explore the struggles that many young adults face in finding motivation and direction. Dr. Melanie shares her expertise on helping young adults build their interpersonal skills and increase their motivation. She breaks down the components of motivation into three skill sets: drive, grit, and goals, offering valuable insights for parents navigating the complexities of raising motivated teens. We also delve into the challenges of this generation's unique landscape, touch on the impact of social media, and discuss the changing dynamics of adolescence and parenting. I found Dr. McNally's approach to be insightful and empowering, offering practical strategies for parents and young adults alike. If you're a parent navigating the complexities of raising neurodivergent teens and young adults, Dr. Melanie’s wisdom is sure to provide valuable guidance and support.
![255: 7 Steps to Help Kids & Teens with Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, with Penny Williams](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/2568742/Beautifully-Complex-Podcast-Cover-Art-NEW2024-1400SQ_300x300.jpg)
Wednesday Mar 06, 2024
Wednesday Mar 06, 2024
In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I tackle the topic of rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD) and provide 7 essential steps to help kids and teens facing this challenge. I share insights on recognizing signs of RSD in kids and teens, fostering open communication, building self-esteem, challenging negative thought patterns, teaching coping strategies, practicing self-compassion, and seeking professional support when needed. Our role as parents and caregivers is crucial in helping our neurodivergent kids navigate these challenges and thrive. If you want to learn more about supporting your child with RSD, don't miss this episode. Remember, you are not alone on this journey, and together, we can help our kids grow into resilient, confident, successful, happy, joyful adults.
![254: How to Be a Neuro-Affirming Parent or Teacher, with Emily Kircher-Morris, M.A., M.ED., LPC](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/2568742/Beautifully-Complex-Podcast-Cover-Art-NEW2024-1400SQ_300x300.jpg)
Wednesday Feb 28, 2024
Wednesday Feb 28, 2024
In today's episode, Emily Kircher-Morris, M.A., M.ED., LPC is back and we're unpacking what it means to be a neuro-affirmative parent or teacher.
We explore the pressures that neurodivergent kids face, especially the expectation to camouflage their true selves. Emily, with her dual expertise in education and counseling, is sharing invaluable insights, including her CARE acronym, which stands for cultivating authenticity, recognizing strengths, empathy, and creating safety.
We discuss the intricacies of masking and the importance of authentic self-representation for these amazing kids and adults. We also address the negative impacts of non-affirming environments that can lead to stress and school avoidance.
Our chat is laced with discussions on embracing rather than merely accepting diverse communication styles, and how this can transform a child's experience. Emily also sheds light on the 'double empathy problem,' the disconnect that can happen in communication between neurodivergent individuals and the neurotypical majority.
Together, Emily and I are rethinking communication norms and advocating for the celebration of individuality, particularly within the neurodiverse community. As we speak, we're delving into self-advocacy for neurodivergent children and the importance of making that a communicative priority. Let’s talk about the significance of recognizing and leveraging the strengths of these amazing humans.
![253: Beyond the Power Struggles, with Richard Selznick, Ph.D.](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/2568742/Beautifully-Complex-Podcast-Cover-Art-NEW2024-1400SQ_300x300.jpg)
Wednesday Feb 21, 2024
253: Beyond the Power Struggles, with Richard Selznick, Ph.D.
Wednesday Feb 21, 2024
Wednesday Feb 21, 2024
Today, I get to talk to the incredible Dr. Richard Selznick—a renowned psychologist specializing in dyslexia and learning disabilities. We dive into the traps parents often fall into when communicating with their children, especially those with neurodivergent needs. Dr. Selznick emphasizes the importance of giving our kids choices. It's eye-opening to hear about the challenges of motivating children with learning struggles and how we tend to blame ourselves as parents. Dr. Selznick's insight shifts the focus to understanding and supporting our kids in the best possible way.
![252: Transforming Behavior: When You Know Better You Do Better, with Penny Williams](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/2568742/Beautifully-Complex-Podcast-Cover-Art-NEW2024-1400SQ_300x300.jpg)
Wednesday Feb 14, 2024
252: Transforming Behavior: When You Know Better You Do Better, with Penny Williams
Wednesday Feb 14, 2024
Wednesday Feb 14, 2024
In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m sharing a deeply personal story about a challenging experience with my son and the valuable insights it brought us regarding challenging behavior and supporting our neurodivergent kids. Through sharing this experience, I emphasize the need for flexibility and understanding in dealing with challenging behaviors, as well as the role of an individual’s nervous system and behavior. I’m also sharing info about the upcoming Transforming Behavior workshop series, which will provide free workshops for parents and caregivers.
![251: Impact of Parental Confidence and Social Pressure on Parenting Complex Kids, with Anouk Briere-Godbout](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/2568742/Beautifully-Complex-Podcast-Cover-Art-NEW2024-1400SQ_300x300.jpg)
Wednesday Feb 07, 2024
Wednesday Feb 07, 2024
In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I have a candid conversation with Anouk Briere-Godbout about the challenges of parenting neurodivergent children. Our discussion focuses on the impact of societal pressure on parental confidence and the importance of finding supportive communities for parents facing similar struggles. Anouk shares personal experiences and professional insights, emphasizing self-compassion, resilience, and the need for a mindset shift in addressing the unique needs of neurodivergent children. If you’ve felt judged about your parenting in public, listening to this episode will make you feel so much less alone!
![250: Recognizing Children's Unique Love Languages, with Emily Hamblin](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/2568742/Beautifully-Complex-Podcast-Cover-Art-NEW2024-1400SQ_300x300.jpg)
Wednesday Jan 31, 2024
250: Recognizing Children's Unique Love Languages, with Emily Hamblin
Wednesday Jan 31, 2024
Wednesday Jan 31, 2024
In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m talking with Emily Hamblin about the unique ways neurodivergent kids might show their love for you. Emily shares her personal journey of recognizing and appreciating her children's unique love languages, discussing the impact of neurodivergent traits on their communication of love and care. The conversation delves into the concept of love languages, emphasizing the importance of understanding and embracing the individual ways in which children express and receive love. Throughout the episode, Emily provides insights and practical tips for parents to recognize and incorporate their children's love languages into daily interactions. The discussion also explores the significance of celebrating small victories in parenting and the value of recognizing and acknowledging children's expressions of love and care.
![249: Helping Neurodivergent Young Adults, with Dr. Janina Elbert Maschke](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/2568742/Beautifully-Complex-Podcast-Cover-Art-NEW2024-1400SQ_300x300.jpg)
Wednesday Jan 24, 2024
249: Helping Neurodivergent Young Adults, with Dr. Janina Elbert Maschke
Wednesday Jan 24, 2024
Wednesday Jan 24, 2024
In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I had an insightful conversation with Dr. Janina Elbert Maschke, an expert in ADHD coaching and cognitive psychology. We discuss how to support neurodivergent young adults as they navigate the unique challenges they face, such as feelings of isolation, academic pressures, and emotional struggles. Dr. Maschke shares invaluable advice on recognizing and celebrating the strengths of neurodivergent individuals, as well as empowering parents to shift from instructing to supporting their young adults. We also discuss the importance of finding one's passion, building confidence, and seeking outside support.